Many times, most of our anxiety and problems are often built on assumptions or misconceptions which can be easily resolved by simple conversation as early as possible. Most times, we feel that something is wrong but keep quiet, drink the poison, smile until it becomes annoying. We are always conscious of the risk of speaking up without being conscious of the risk of not speaking up.
Dear Smart,
I am in a relationship with a lady that is older than me with two years and some months. She has been so kind, loving, caring, supporting and understanding for the past two years of our relationship. But my parents have not really approved of me marrying her because we are not from the same state and different language. But despite that, l really love this lady and know she loves me too with all indication. Her physical appearance has been my major problem this days. Her looks sometimes irritates me. She is just not naturally beautiful to my liking, although to be sincere she’ s beautiful at heart, God fearing and will indeed make a good wife, but I have been trying to ignore the physical look but just can’t help myself whenever we are together. This is really making me loose interest gradually coupled with the fact that my parents have not agree that I marry her. Please I need your kind advice
Dear Smart,
I ’ m loosing my mind. I ‘m a single mum of two, I met this single guy in the church and we got talking. We fell in love. He told me that he ‘s in a relationship but the lady is still in school. I prayed to know if we are meant to be and I saw us as a happy family with a child. I wasn’t OK with the dream, so i wanted a reconfirmation. I told my father in the Lord to pray with me (I gave him two names though). He said we are good together. But where I ’ m having issues is that I ’m not comfortable with the fact that there ‘s someone somewhere. I know she was before me. I do feel i have to compete with someone to win him to myself. Each time i talk to him about it, he ‘l l tell me that i should just play my own part. This guy shows me love and tries to give me any thing i requested. But what baffles me is that he has never asked about my broken marriage. He said he doesn’t want to remind me of my past. (The love is questionable ). I am so confused. Do you think he can pick me over a single lady ? Please advice .
Dear Smart ,
I am in a relationship for one year now, though a distance one. We love ourselves and he is planning to come and see my people soon. Recently I visited him in Lagos where he base, but through out the four days i stayed in Lagos, we slept in separate rooms. On the third day, his brother came and he left the room for him and joined me in my room.  He distanced himself from me, not even a touch. I want to know if this is normal. Is it that he wants to show me that he is serious and that he is not coming to chop and run? Am bordered.Â
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