Of course, he can actually pick you over a single lady. We all want to love and be loved with peace of mind. But let’s look at it this way. He has already told you that he is in a relationship with another woman and that the woman is still in school. That information alone is to let you know that anything can happen and it won’t be his fault as you already know he has a woman before you. That information alone is to tell you that both of you can actually be friends with benefit. Friends with benefit simply means ”play your path, I play my own path while it lasts. He will be solving your financially problems while you solve his own problems in kind. Don’t mistake that for love.

Yes , I know your pastor has confirmed your dream. let me not talk about that today.

This man does not really want to know about your failed marriage because he does not need it. If both of you are actually going to be friends with benefit, what’s the essence of asking? You see, you don’t have to invest all your emotions on this relationship to avoid getting hurt. Take it one step at a time. Enjoy it for now while it last